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The Myth of Sacrifice
Delayed, but definitely not denied.
Hey honeys and hustlers,
The key to discipline is not sacrifice. In our pursuit of success and personal growth, we often encounter the concept of sacrifice. The other side of hustle propaganda is probably virtue-signaling sacrifice as a hallmark of character (hint: it’s not, and you can tell your favorite Twitter/LinkedIn bro I said it). What if we've been looking at it all wrong? What if, instead of viewing our efforts as sacrifices, we saw them as investments in our future selves? When we reframe our "sacrifices" as investments in our future, we shift from a mindset of loss to one of growth. Every choice to delay gratification, every decision to put in extra effort, is not a sacrifice but a deposit into our future success and well-being. By consciously choosing what to prioritize, we're allocating our resources—time, energy, and focus—in alignment with our values and aspirations. This shift in perspective helped me reshape my relationship with work and transformed how I approach the concepts of discipline, productivity, and personal development.
"We withhold from ourselves until we achieve a goal and then we withhold from ourselves to maintain that goal." Roxane Gay in Hunger
One of the biggest shifts in going from an employee to a self-employed creator is time management. Nobody is checking to make sure I’m “clocked in” or logged into my email at a certain time. No one is following up with me to hold me accountable for marketing myself or my services regularly. In fact, how I manage my time is completely up to me. And if I were left to my own devices, I would likely work myself into the ground. I love what I do, and at first, it was easy to say no to a night out with friends or neglect to go home for family events. But now, I understand that sacrificing downtime in totality was hurting my productivity and ability to create my best work. True productivity comes from a simple commitment to getting better at creating your best working environment – not a commitment to things getting easier, more convenient, or even more visible.
What’s the point in working to have time freedom, and then not giving yourself any free time? Not a single person will show up to your funeral and praise you for missing Christmas, birthdays, or any other life events for the sake of work. Building a business takes work. Creating something meaningful takes work. But it is not work that requires your constant attention and the sacrifice of your overall well-being. Be intentional about getting better at finding workflows and systems that allow you to create at a high level in deep, focused work sessions. Every yes should feel like a “hell yes!” And everything that doesn’t spark that level of enthusiasm, is likely a no (or “not right now”).
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I’m forming many thoughts on what social media will look like going forward but I’d love to hear from you:
Have you made a Bluesky account? What are your thoughts on Twitter? Reply to this email or comment below!
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